Spread your wings/ It’s time to fly/ Make the leap/ Own the sky. —Ms. Moem
I took Sara to the beach on Friday. We stopped at the market first, though, to grab a picnic dinner.
It’s kind of a big deal, at Sara’s age, to choose your own meal. I got a small container of basil pasta salad, with sundries tomatoes and olives. She grabbed a Lunchable, grapes, medjool dates…and a croissant.
Croissant: a hint of something delicious on the horizon. Sara’s taking an all-girls trip to France next week, with her grandmother and mommy. Oooh la la!
Sara’s growing so quickly now, in every single way. Take on the boys in a game of Nine Square in the Air? She’s on it!
Wade in the water? Look at that smile!
When the waves arch and froth at the water’s edge, she just roots herself in the sand.
A not-so-random thought eventually bubbles to the surface.
“Mommy says we’re going to eat snails in Paris,” Sara tells me. “Sorry, escargot.” She describes the dish as it’s been related to her: tiny snails, smothered in heavy sauce. “I don’t know yet if I’m really going to eat them,” she says.
I tell her that I chickened out when I had the chance.
“I wish I hadn’t,” I say.
“Sometimes,” I’m quick to add, because it’s always best to be honest.
“Give them a try,” I suggest. “Even if it’s just a teeny tiny bite, you’ll be proud of yourself for being brave. And who knows, you might decide you like them!”
Food for thought…
Hungry seagulls snatch the last of the grapes. Church groups are staking out the fire pits, and the lifeguard — zipped into a red jacket, now–is standing watch.
Who’s chasing whom? Sometimes it’s hard to tell.
Sara falls on purpose, soaks her dress in ocean water. She tries to pull me down, too, but I caution her against it.
Next time, I tell her. “I don’t want to get my camera wet.”
Thing is, I like wading in the tide pools. I love digging my toes into wet sand, and I don’t mind water swirling around my ankles. I took swimming lessons after my sons were born. Basic lifesaving techniques, for my sake and theirs. But –and — I always make sure I’m within very close range of the lifeguard station.
I nearly drowned when I was her age. I don’t tell her that.
I tell her instead, that she can achieve whatever she sets her mind to–the sky’s the limit.
And it occurs to me that maybe next time I could, maybe should, venture just a tiny bit further into the waves. I’ll be proud of myself for being brave enough to try, I tell myself, and who knows, I might decide I like it.
The prompt for this week is sky. You’ve invited to join the party here, and/or peek at my previous weeks’ entries here.
eric
That’s a wonderful story. Great fun for her and you and a great challenge for her to pull you into the water!
Thanks for joining Melodye. – eric
Esther Loveridge
I’ll be heading into the sky tomorrow night close to the midnight hour so I just had to comment on that and how delicious escargot is. Maybe it’s the butter I like best but they really just taste like a nice plump mushrooms – with the butter of course. Regarding stepping out into the ocean. Find a cute lifeguard to hold your camera, that way it will be safe. And when I sit within reach of the waves and let them wash over me, I get so buried that I can’t get back up without help. What a delightful story. Thanks, Melodye and tell Sara hat the hot dogs on a baguette is to almost die for.
Lorraine
I just love this! What fun and what a beautiful friendship. <3
Patrice Aarts
beautiful poem
and such fine images
how i long to fly
and miss the sea…
thanks!
x
Carol Baldwin
Such a lovely blog post. Sara is getting so big!!
liz jones
Love it! Escargots are worth trying for the garlic sauce. I’d say, enjoy the sauce, skip the slug. But maybe she’ll like them!
Stace
That’s the problem with being behind the camera – it often means you’re watching the adventure instead of participating.
Also, I’m jealous of Sara, getting to go to Paris!
Barbara Etlin
Lucky Sara! I hope she enjoys her French adventure, something she’ll probably remember for life.
Thanks for sharing these photos, Melodye.
Tammie
such a lovely post
the conversations are touching
the photos so lovely
the beauty of the beach and life overflows