Clockwise, left to right: My sister Coral, my mother,
Sheryll, Melodye, and Heidi (the church organist is in the background)
Look at me, all dolled up in my Easter finery! We’re standing in front of Everybody’s Tabernacle in Baltimore, circa 1961. There’s lots of cultural history embedded in that photograph, and there’s a story behind the slightly peeved expression on my face.
In retrospect, I should have shown more gratitude to the woman who gave us those outfits as a "love offering." But truth be told, I loathed having to dress like anyone else. And I remember being especially peeved about having to wear hand-me-down cowboy boots with that flouncy cotton dress. Footwear can make or break an outfit, don’t you agree?
i_amsherlocked
footwear can make or break an outfit!
I remember being forced to wear these horrible snakeskin shoes with a snakeskin bow on the back and pointy toes. I still hate pointy toed shoes to this day.
Melodye Shore
Eewww! Snakeskin?? Poor thing–I can’t imagine!
Flip flops are my footwear of choice, now that I’m an adult and can make such decisions for myself. π
i_amsherlocked
Me too! Flip Flops or barefoot!
saputnam
Me three! Barefoot even in the winter.
i_amsherlocked
exactly! (god bless California weather!)
saputnam
Um…I live in Vermont, but I still go barefoot all year long. My PT was trying to convince me to wear shoes, but it was a lost cause : )
Melodye Shore
I wear UGG slippers in the house during the winter. Or my sheepskin lined flip flops.
mostly_irish
I say you were just ahead of your time. I think cowboy boots with a springy dress sounds “feminine and playful with a little edge.” π
Also? Little girls in their Easter Finery are ALWAYS adorable, no matter what! Thanks for sharing. π
Melodye Shore
You’re so sweet. π
I have noticed girls sporting cowboy boots with springtime prints, but, uh, not for me. Especially when the leather’s really scuffed and they’re so large that the toe box curls up like an elf’s shoes.
Your turn to post a springtime picture??
mostly_irish
Oh, shame on those girls. Don’t they know how to treat their boots?
And…done! Springtime picture posted. π
Melodye Shore
I think they were working boots, rather than boots made for walkin’… π
Clomping over to your blog right now!
tracyworld
Cowboy boots and flouncy dresses worked for k.d. Lang. I think it’s kind of a cool look. But I understand your peevish feelings, and I’m sure they had less to do with boots than other stuff.
Melodye Shore
So true for k.d. Lang, but it wasn’t fashionable at the time the picture was taken. And you’re right: what you’re wearing is far less important than how you’re feeling inside.
tracyworld
I remember standing next to the school wall during recess because I was embarrassed about wearing my brother’s black galoshes. My white galoshes were ruined the night before when I put them too close to the fireplace screen to dry them. The boot melted onto the metal screen and was ruined.
Now I’d much rather wear black boots than white. HA.
Melodye Shore
Oh…that makes my heart melt. I’m so sorry, Little Tracy:(
Had that happened to me, I can only imagine the fallout, Bible verse included (“Pride goeth before a fall…”
tracyworld
Don’t worry, Melodye. I just file that memory with the one of me wearing knickers in third grade. (Yikes!)
susanwrites
I have some of those flouncy dress pictures too. They are some of my favorites.
I remember my mom wanting me to wear those anklets with the little bits of lace around the edges much past the age when I should have been doing so. Sigh.
Melodye Shore
Oh man…I sympathize.
And I double-dog dare ya to post one of those pictures. I mustered up the courage…will you? π
robinellen
Yeah, I don’t think I would’ve liked being dressed like others, either. Thankfully, I had a brother π
Melodye Shore
I had two brothers, much older than I. We didn’t get a pass on their hand-me-downs, though. Think no one noticed that my buttons were on the “wrong” side? Ahaha. You would be wrong.
But yeah, now people wear clothes like this on purpose. Call ’em vintage, and it’s all good. π
edenzdream
First of all, the cutest face in the pic stands out: yours. For miles. Secondly, the cowboy boots ( hand me downs even ) are adorable. Totally chic. Even then you had style, even if you loathed it!
Melodye Shore
I think my strong personality shone through more than anything. Maybe that’s what you’re seeing?
Funny, isn’t it, how fashion changes over the years? Those (custom-designed) boots were handed down to me by a family in Dallas, TX. I’ll bet they’d cost a pretty penny now.
saputnam
If they were Tony Lamas, they cost a pretty penny even back then!!
Melodye Shore
Hee! I sincerely doubt they were custom designed or high-end boots!
sartorias
I used to loathe twin outfits, especially since my mom bought them with my cuter younger sister in mind. This was especially painful when I was twelve, and she eight, and I was a stick figure inside a dress really meant for an eight year old.
Melodye Shore
Oh, ouch! I can so relate!
One positive thing about being the elder of (just) two sisters? You only had to wear the same dress/outfit until you outgrew yours. When I could no longer fit into mine, I’d get Sheryll’s. But poor little Heidi: She had to suffer through three sizes of the same outfit. Yikes!
sartorias
I knew families where this happened, and yes, we did wear those Easter dresses for several years running (I had two, a sailor dress ages 7-9, and then that hideous yellow thing for ages 10-12) but my sister never had to wear my clothes. Mom always got her new. (It wasn’t intentional, it’s just that she was so cute, I was so skinny and gangling, and my sister was really into clothes from day one. I didn’t buy myself a pair of jeans until I was 19–my babysitting money all went into books and postage to send out stories.)
Melodye Shore
Smart girl, you! You were wise in your investments, and look how that’s paid off for you (and your readers!) since.
I’d *love* to see a picture of you in your Easter finery. If you’ve got one, and are willing to share it, that is.
sartorias
I scanned it, but I don’t see how to upload in a comment. Ah well!
Melodye Shore
If you’d like, email it to me and I’ll upload it in this comments thread and send you the Photobucket link: newport2newport AT gmail DOT com
Melodye Shore
You look adorable! Thanks for sharing. π
sartorias
Re: You look adorable! Thanks for sharing. π
Well, not adorable, but thanks!
lorrainemt
Hand me down shoes. Sigh. Ugly black tie up clunkers come to mind. But how fun it was to buy my daughter sparkly pink jellies when she was little. π
Love the photo and knowing the emotions behind it!
Melodye Shore
Oh man, I had my share of tie-up oxfords. My father used to buy us Buster Browns. And orange-soled saddle oxfords. Is it any wonder I prefer flip flops, now that I’m old enough to buy shoes for myself?
I hope you’ll post a photo of yourself as a spring chicken. π
sbennettwealer
Oh, but I love that picture. And these days, the cowboy boots with the frilly dress would be so very “now.” π
Melodye Shore
I was ahead of my time, but didn’t know it. No wonder I look so vexed. π
sruble
Cute picture, but sorry about the hand-me-downs. I remember getting some awful clothes as hand-me-downs. I do love that you have a slightly peeved expression and that there’s a story behind it. (There’s always a story, even if nobody listens to you, right?)
Melodye Shore
In truth, we were lucky to get hand-me-downs. Otherwise…we probably would have gone to church nekkid.
There’s always a story, isn’t there? In sharing our photos and other memorabilia, we get to tell that story. I hope you’ll post one of yours… π
sruble
We were lucky to get hand-me-downs too, but that doesn’t mean I had to like them!
I’ve shared a few things in the past, but mostly tied to my childhood art or writing. I think one of the favorites was when I called winter a pig (or it might have been snow, can’t remember now). It was a poem I wrote in grade school. π
amygreenfield
What a great picture! And the story behind it is even better.
Where I grew up, March and April were so cold that we sometimes were still wearing our snow gear at Easter. So I’m in complete agreement that footwear is a make or break issue. Especially if your footwear happens to be raspberry-red moon boots. Oy!
Melodye Shore
Yeah, I have no idea why we weren’t wearing coats. It was Baltimore, for goodness sakes!
Raspberry-red moon boots…wow, just wow. I think we need a picture. π
amygreenfield
Wow, indeed! I don’t think I have a photo, but they will live in my mind forever.
tamarak
Thanks for sharing that great picture and the history behind it.
To those boots I say, “YEEHAW!”
Melodye Shore
Boots have their place–at Cowboy Camp!
susanwrites
Still looking for a picture for you. π
Melodye Shore
Oooh, I hope you find one!
Happy Easter weekend, dear friend.
papadan
“Cowboy boots with a flouncy dress”…. that doesn’t get any better. but to a small fry it might just be the pits. Might I suggest for your next time out on the town a new pair of boots?
Love the picture and can’t wait for the story behind it. This is just another way to wet our appetite for more of the story.
Melodye Shore
It’s suitable attire for Texas and those parts, but Baltimore? Not so much. π
I loved your post today, by the way. Oh, the stories you and your fishing buddy could tell…
papadan
Oh yes the stories we can tell. Hummmm…..now there is an idea. Maybe I’ll tell a few fishing stories. Nothing but the truth…Crossing my fingers.
onegrapeshy
You’re so lucky to have so many pics from your childhood. I have barely any. π
Melodye Shore
I have precious few, actually. Part of my Nancy Drew adventures involve prying these treasures away from hoarders who don’t realize how much they’re really worth.
((HUGS)) because I know how much it means to have these talismans, and how it feels to do without.
onegrapeshy
I have a feeling I know where they are but there’s nothing I can do about it. And some where destroyed (a scene I worked into book # 1, lol).
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