I’ve grown close to many of you, primarily through our online conversations. But after reading her latest entry, I’m especially grateful for the lunch lkmadigan and I shared a few years back. Lucky for me, my dear friends Lorraine and Lisa were able to join our afternoon playdate.
So much of a person’s essence is revealed through a face-to-face encounter, don’t you think? The lilt in their voice…the way their eyes crinkle when they smile…the way they lean into your conversation, as if nothing else matters more than the here-and-now. And there’s perhaps nothing as soul-satisfying as shared laughter (and/or tears), tight hugs, and sincere promises to stay in touch. And so it is that I’m remembering a special afternoon among treasured friends, and wishing for another.
Lisa’s news came as quite a shock to me. But in its rawness, I’m remembering to savor each moment, to cherish life’s simple joys, and to hold dear each of my relationships. So I’m dedicating this entry to Lisa, the heartbeat behind Thankful Thursday. For the many ways we’ve expressed our friendship over time, I’ll be forever grateful.
Top Photo: LK Madigan and Lorraine T. Bottom Photo: Lisa Shroeder and me (Portland, 2007)
jeniwrites
What a lovely way to recognize such an incredible person.
Melodye Shore
I’m so glad they carved out an afternoon to spend with me! I look back on those pictures–on that memory and many since–with a great deal of fondness.
tracyworld
Beautiful photos and sentiments, Melodye. I’m still stunned by Lisa’s news. I’m glad you had the opportunity to spend time with her in person.
Melodye Shore
I’m grateful for that opportunity, too, and selfish as it may seem, I find myself wishing for more. And more!
Also…when it comes to the friends (like you!) that I’ve promised to meet someday, I feel as if I should find a way to replace “someday” with an actual calendar date.
tracyworld
Are you ever in Colorado? I don’t travel much because I have these two hulking teenage boys at home right now…
lisa_schroeder
Lovely. So hard to believe that was three years ago. Wow.
Melodye Shore
I know! In some ways, it feels as if we met for lunch just yesterday. But after yesterday’s news, it feels as if it’s been too long.
anabelgonzalez
I’m so sorry for the news of your friend. This is a beautiful way to recognize her and you have the photos of the amazing moment when you met. Hugs!
Melodye Shore
Thank you, Anabel!
anabelgonzalez
love is the more eloquent way to express gratitude. I am sure she know how much you value her friendship and how dear she is to you. Sometimes you don’t need words only love.
candice_ransom
We are all thankful for our group on LiveJournal! Thanks for sharing your story and the photos of your happy, smiling faces.
Melodye Shore
Yes! Oh yes! My community of LJ friends is one of life’s richest blessings. Thank you for the gift of your friendship!
lorrainemt
I’m still holding the feeling of that wonderful meeting in my heart and memory. Love to all of you.
Melodye Shore
Oh, Lorraine!! I’m wishing we could talk together over tea and scones…I’m missing you so much. xoxo
lorrainemt
Oh shoot, Melodye, this made me a little teary when I read it. I’ missing you too…and hoping we’ll get a chance to have tea and scones together soon. xo
susanwrites
How wonderful that you have that memory of time shared.
Melodye Shore
I feel very blessed. 🙂
saputnam
When I read Jo Knowles post this morning I was stunned, and then when I went to Lisa’s site and read her words I was completely blown away by her courage.
I’m so glad that you had the opportunity to spend time with her.
Melodye Shore
I’m still processing the news…it doesn’t seem real, does it? And I can’t begin to imagine how it must be affecting Lisa and her family. Her impact is wide and deep; I am lucky to have spent time with her, yes, and I’m incredibly blessed by our friendship.
robinellen
I’m so glad you shared your afternoon with us — and I’m thankful you have that memory to add light to your days for years to come.
Melodye Shore
It resonates with me that you mentioned light, with respect to my afternoon with Lisa. I remember her telling me to pay attention to whatever’s immediately visible in my headlights. She was talking about writing, of course…about concentrating on the here and now, and letting the rest of the journey unfold as it will. I think that’s wise advice she gave me, applicable to Life Itself.
lizjonesbooks
Well said. So,so sad.:o(
Melodye Shore
((HUGS))) I’m trying very hard to concentrate on the gifts available in the here and now. It’s difficult (!!), but I’m thinking that’s the best way to honor our friendship.
annecy_dit
I am so thankful that i know Lisa, too.
sarameade
There are some people that come into our lives that are so beautiful and full of grace that they change how we look at everything. Lisa seems to be that kind of person. Many prayers for you and also for her and her family in this difficult time.
amygreenfield
The glow from that remembered table is shining all the way out here. Holding you all in my heart. xo
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