I’m working on a chapter in which we traveled through the Mojave desert. In the blazing heat of summer. Seven of us–with all our earthly possessions–crammed ourselves into a family-sized sedan and headed out to God Knows Where.
Funny, how our mind cordons off certain experiences, while granting us full access to others. Why, for instance, did I not realize at the time (but remembered later) that one of my brothers stayed behind with Nana?
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Here, some random pictures from last weekend’s hike in the desert. Freak show or beauty pageant? You decide.
carriejones
My mind cordons off so many things, too. Itβs bizarre and yet somehow kind of fascinating.
I love this picture, love love LOVE it.
xo
Melodye Shore
The mind is a wondrous thing, isn’t it? I think suppressed memories are the brain’s way of helping us heal–maybe in the same way that a poultice seals a painful wound.
mirtlemist
To me, it’s all beauty, even if seems austere and kind of forbiddig. I think it would take a real mental adjustment to live there, but maybe it’s all about the learning to look a little closer.
Melodye Shore
I think it’s beautiful, too. To the untrained eye, the desert floor looks barren–hostile, even. But if you look closely, you’ll see that it’s teeming with flora and fauna of all kinds, each organism suited for the ecology in which they live.
tracyworld
Beauty pageant, definitely.
I’m having those little memory chunks come floating back lately, too. I’d bet because of your project those chunks come at you fast and furious.
Melodye Shore
It’s part of the healing process, I think, these gradual revelations. They have something to teach us, if we’re willing to listen. But yes, those recollections blow in with a fierce intensity sometimes. Like the Santa Ana winds…
docstymie
sounds very Grapes of Wrath-y ;o)
Melodye Shore
Hee! There were definitely some similarities.
Melodye Shore
Hee! There were definitely some similarities.
docstymie
sounds very Grapes of Wrath-y ;o)
laurasmagicday
I LOVE the desert in the Spring. Beautiful pics! It’s funny what we remember, maybe it has to do with POV? Nice that you have family to fill-in-the-blanks!
Melodye Shore
The desert is gorgeous this time of year. Love the wildflowers, and the skies are impossibly blue…
Melodye Shore
The desert is gorgeous this time of year. Love the wildflowers, and the skies are impossibly blue…
laurasmagicday
I LOVE the desert in the Spring. Beautiful pics! It’s funny what we remember, maybe it has to do with POV? Nice that you have family to fill-in-the-blanks!
susanwrites
As I am discovering with my own current project, what I remember may not be what someone else remembers but the emotions are mine, all mine.
Melodye Shore
Yes, exactly!
Most often, my memories are very similar to those of my siblings; but about some things, our individual recollections vary wildly from one another’s. In those instances, I go with my gut because, as you said, emotions point us toward the underlying truth of the story.
Melodye Shore
Yes, exactly!
Most often, my memories are very similar to those of my siblings; but about some things, our individual recollections vary wildly from one another’s. In those instances, I go with my gut because, as you said, emotions point us toward the underlying truth of the story.
susanwrites
As I am discovering with my own current project, what I remember may not be what someone else remembers but the emotions are mine, all mine.
robinellen
The desert really is like a-whole-nother world, isn’t it?
Melodye Shore
Yep, it sure is. I felt like an alien, visiting another planet.
robinellen
The desert really is like a-whole-nother world, isn’t it?
mostly_irish
Beauty pageant. ALL THE WAY. π
Melodye Shore
I think so, too.
Except, can I tell you a secret? I loathe snakes. I’m glad we didn’t see any sunbathing rattlers while we were there!
mostly_irish
Beauty pageant. ALL THE WAY. π
lorrainemt
I would love to take a hike in the desert with you! It’s gorgeous.
I hope your desert chapter is blossoming. π
Melodye Shore
Turns out, a different chapter called to me today. It’s all good though, as it’s yet another step forward in the revision progress.
I’d so love to hike with you in the desert, to walk with you along a sandy beach, or stroll beside a mountain stream… Someday, someday for sure!
lorrainemt
I would love to take a hike in the desert with you! It’s gorgeous.
I hope your desert chapter is blossoming. π
papadan
Definitely a beauty pageant
Melodye Shore
Seems like everyone agrees with you–looks like we have a winner! π
papadan
Definitely a beauty pageant
i_amsherlocked
Lucky you! Definitely a beauty pageant! I lived in the high desert for a while as a child and loved the wildflowers.
Do you know why your brother stayed? Would you have wanted to stay too?
Melodye Shore
You’re close enough to take a day trip, aren’t you? It’s a long drive, but do-able.
I know now the reason he stayed, but I didn’t understand at the time. (when I realized his absence, that is). I wish to this day that I could have stayed with Nana. It about broke my heart when we left.
i_amsherlocked
My grandparents on both sides still live there, so we visit regularly. The drive is only a couple of hours for us.
Melodye Shore
Ah, then it’s time for a road trip!!!
Melodye Shore
Ah, then it’s time for a road trip!!!
i_amsherlocked
Lucky you! Definitely a beauty pageant! I lived in the high desert for a while as a child and loved the wildflowers.
Do you know why your brother stayed? Would you have wanted to stay too?
onegrapeshy
Funny, how our mind cordons off certain experiences, while granting us full access to others.
I’ve often wondered this…
Melodye Shore
I think it’s a common phenomenon–one that I’ll speak to in my memoir. Not with authority, mind you, but with the voice of my own experiences.
onegrapeshy
Sigh. I have no memory of second grade other than be forced to stand in the corner with my nose against the wall. π
Melodye Shore
I think it’s a common phenomenon–one that I’ll speak to in my memoir. Not with authority, mind you, but with the voice of my own experiences.
fandoria
Great pictures! I used to think the desert was so boring and then I lived in the Roosevelt/Vernal area of Utah for about a year when I was in middle school which is pretty deserty and I loved it. My current wip is actually set there so I’m finding your desert picture particularly inspiring.
Melodye Shore
Oh, cool! I love the surprising and delightful ways we connect with one another. π
fandoria
Great pictures! I used to think the desert was so boring and then I lived in the Roosevelt/Vernal area of Utah for about a year when I was in middle school which is pretty deserty and I loved it. My current wip is actually set there so I’m finding your desert picture particularly inspiring.